Question: 5 years of lies! Complete lies! I found out the only reason my girlfriend was with me was because she needed her freakin' green card and I was the dumbass that fell for it. I guess I must have had sucker written all over my face. She told me she loved me, I thought it was real, and all of a sudden she confessed that she was in love with someone else and only needed me to get citizenship but now that she found someone she really cared about, she was letting me go. What do I do with this pain? Where do I go from here?
Answer: Oh my goodness this must really sting. I can hear your rage and fury, I can hear your hurt and pain, I can feel how intensely you are judging yourself for being a dumbass and sucker. Ouch ouch ouch on so many levels.
I'd like to break this down into different areas in support of your healing. Right out of the gate given I can't jump through this blog to give you a healing hug on your path to peace... the next best thing would be that you let me support you over the next 7 weeks in my home study webisode curriculum.
I believe you deeply require consistent reliable effective support to feeeeeel through all of this and not get stuck in anger or victim mode. It's imperative you GET the lessons and integrate the growth so it doesn't happen again! This way you WILL become stronger because of this challenge, not close-hearted.
There is validated anger that somebody used you... And yet if you continue to be angry at her, you'll become a bitter man, and if you continue to be angry at yourself, you're going to get depressed. You must process and integrate this anger in a healthy way so that you are stronger and wiser. Or it will happen again.
There's validated pain and hurt from being used and instead of giving yourself a hug, you are taking a two-by-four and bashing yourself with unkind words of rejection like a dumbass and sucker! Stop my friend! This is only going to result in lowering your self-esteem and obliterating your confidence in life and with women. Give yourself a break. You did your best. This self abuse needs to heal and the pain needs to be integrated effectively so that you can literally be better from having gone through this.
There's also the part of you that didn't see this coming, couldn't feel in your intuition her true intentions, wasn't connected to your primal instincts that something was off, yes? Perhaps you were clouded by being lonely or shadowed by your sexual attraction or infatuated by her beauty or words. This is a part of you that needs to evolve and mature from a wounded Prince into a Noble King.
Can you see now why I'm so emphatic that I'd like you to let me help you heal in my home study program immediately? This program has helped hundreds of people from around the world to heal their hearts, release the past once and for all, process anger in a healthy way, reconnect with (or discover for the firs time) their discerning awareness and spot on intuition... so they can open their hearts to healthy love and manifest their beloved while staying true to themselves.
Please love yourself and honor yourself enough to go through this proven curriculum. The program was originally a seven-part webisode seri3es that I delivered three times to ensure miraculous results every time. You can register for it here.
And if you desire one-on-one time with me and a conscious community with whom to go through this program, to ensure you soar through the finish line and can celebrate attracting healthy love in the future, I'd like to see if you're a fit to invite into my Noble Badass 3-month Journey. Simply register for a $97 discounted introductory session at www.AllanaPratt.com/connect where we will get to the core of why this happened and create a plan of healing. If you're a fit, I will invite you into the three-month journey. It would be my privilege and pleasure.
Humongous love, hang in there, I've got your back, blessings, Allana xox
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